Life is meant to be lived

We all just want to be happy and live a fulfilling life, but sometimes it can be difficult.

There are so many distractions that sometimes we focus more on the outside world rather in our inner world. Despite life’s ups and downs, you have the ability to transform your whole life and you can start taking charge of it right now.

You only have one life. If you’re just letting life pass you, are you really even living? Stop wasting time and start loving your life.

You get to wake up every day and decide how you choose to see your life.

You have to do things that bring you joy.

You have to surround yourself with people who respect and love you the way you are.

You have to do the work to heal yourself, even when it hurts.

You have to put yourself out there, even if it’s scary.

You cannot worry about what other people think.

Remember that your existence is finite. So enjoy your life the best way possible. At the end of the day, you just want to be proud of the person you are becoming.

Life is a gift. Wake up every day and realize that.

  • Romanticize your life
  • Notice the small things in life: your smile, a pretty blue sky, the sun rising in the morning, the smell of fresh coffee, clean sheets, the smell of new books…These are all small things that you probably take for granted every day
  • Dance like no one’s watching
  • Do things alone even if you’re scared of
  • Take pretty pictures
  • Take yourself on a date
  • Do at least one thing you love every day
  • Take risks. Start something you always have dreamed of, do something that scares you, start a business,…It can be a failure (but a learning and growing process), but it could also be a success. At least you tried.
  • Be grateful
  • Buy yourself flowers
  • Light up a candle and read a book

Do whatever you want that makes you feel happy – this is your life, don’t let anyone take it from you.

In the end, we only regret the chances we didn’t take, the things we were afraid to do, and the decisions we waited too long to make.

Live your dreams and take risks. Life is happening now.

Hope you find this post inspiring.

What is your biggest goal in life? I would love to read all your answers ❤


28 Replies to “Life is meant to be lived”

  1. My biggest target for me is , control of my self , if I wanted to do something, just do it ,
    I can’t do this.

  2. Thank you for this 🌼🌼🌼

    1. i really want to have my own yt channel and become a youtouber, influencer, someone like that, i hope it is going to well

      1. I recently found myself utterly miserable, going through the monotonous motions with no sense of meaning, purpose, or joy. Then I realized no matter how hard I tried to please those around me my character continued to be attacked as if a bounty had been placed on its assassination. Then, like a flash, a light bulb went off during a mid-day poor pitiful me session I was having with myself, how silly I am!!! This arduous game of tug-o- war had already been won! All I had to do was let go of the rope. If someone is unable to see my value that does not diminish my worth! I have nothing to prove or out run. No one knows me better than me, no one can advocate for me but, well me. I realized, yes, yes its true, the problem my friends, IS me. At that moment I felt freer than I ever had, you see, I cannot change anyone, any thing, or any situation. Those things are all totally out of my control; however, I can absolutely change me. I am the only one and the only part of anything in my life that I have the power to change. When I approach each situation with that fact at the forefront I can see my triumphs, and embrace the areas I could stand to improve upon. Its not about what “they” think, say, or do it’s about me and my happiness. For today, ( and hopefully forever) I chose to follow my peace and today is the first day I am putting me first, stepping into the unknown, pushing through my fear, and embracing all the little things I’ve ignored for far too long. Thank-you for your posts they often say exactly what I needed to hear right when I needed to hear it..
        K. Phoenix

    2. Lochin Baweja says: Reply

      Inspirational one..

  3. Thank YOU for the advice

  4. My biggest goal is have a simple and a happy life.i want to be happy don’t feel stressed , guilty or tired I want enjoy my kids and have good time

    1. I know you can

  5. Princess Crybaby 999 says: Reply

    I want to read tarot for people, I want to enjoy and trust myself while doing it.

    Follow me on my tarot page: @_divinedimples_

    I want to create my own healthy happy family. I want to use the things I’ve learned from my childhood so that I don’t repeat the family cycle.

  6. Thank you for this!
    I needed to read this. I’ve been in a bit of a slump the last couple of weeks. It’s time to move forward. Life is too short to waste any more days!

    1. My biggest goal in life is to spread love, to help others heal, and to raise loving caring compassionate humans

      1. Yes! All the posts of them come to me at the right time too!

    2. Thank you for your words..It is really inspired. I want to live life happily and peacefully with love.. That’s my only wish.

    3. My biggest goal in life is being someone influencer a good role model that people get inspired from. I wanna reach that level of success that people would follow my footsteps. I wanna help and inspire others to make a real change in their life and to leave their footprints on the sands of time.

  7. Thank you for this!💌
    My biggest goal in life is to live a slow, simple, but exciting, adventurous life, somewhere close to the sea and mountains. I want to always have stories to tell, about my latest adventures and experiences from learning new cultures. to be surrounded with extraordinary people who respect and love me.

  8. I’ve been hard on myself these past few days and kind of negative. Thank you for this article, it helped me refocus and reflect on myself.

  9. Elizabeth Solomon says: Reply

    Thanks for sharing. I have always tagged along and put others first but now I’m learning to love myself and take care of me.

  10. Thank you for this post ☺ and thank you to the people who commented, your comments are also truly inspiring. May we all achieve what we want 🤞😌

  11. Jennifer Woods says: Reply

    I just got this app and this was the very first thing I’ve read because I’m still navagating my way through it but all I can say is WOW!!!!! that was meant for me I just know it was. I’m so inspired to begin this journey and to have a whole community behind me cheering me on because I don’t talk to anyone I’m to scared to I only see my husband and my dog and I’m tired of sitting here watching life pass me by. Stop no more… I’m going to put the work into learning to get up and live my life!!!! Thank you for the inspiration.

    1. Julia Laverne says: Reply

      I feel you Jennifer. The only ones I see are my boyfriend and my cats. He’s at work all day, so thank God for the soft kitties. Pets are such a comfort.
      But try to get out there. Go for a walk and you might encounter someone on your path to say hello to. Just going to the grocery store and being around people gives me some joy. These are hard days. The pandemic has changed people’s brains. It’s hard to make friends anymore. Dancing by myself and hula hooping makes me feel better. I wish you happiness.

  12. This post is just what I need to get started. Thanks so much for the post. I’ve always focused on others and tried to make them happy but now I want to focus on myself too, to love, care for and accept myself too.

  13. Deliwe Menyuko says: Reply

    Thank you all for just taking the time to inspire others. I also learnt the importance of self care after a black out experience due to exhaustion. Now I thank God every morning just to be breathing, then I take care of myself, rest more & spend more time in my garden & enjoying my kids. My message is: Lets keep walking, no matter how hard.

  14. Well i have my two lil dreams to pursue.
    Turn into a Writer writer from a amateur one right now📝
    And Open my restaurant ❤️

  15. It’s really touching
    Thank you my dear

  16. My biggest goal in life is to be a healer..
    Helping people lives better life! I’m always not dare to face the challenges I had, just do it…

    To help other live better life’s, I should start to live myself a better life!!

  17. Mi mayor objetivo es tener total control de mis emociones. Vivir la vida sin dañar a los demás por mi falta de control, pero vivir sin miedo.

  18. My biggest goal in life is to be the best person, mother, wife, sister, daughter, and friend that I can be. To live each day to the fullest and to enjoy my life. Also to be free from anything that is holding me back from reaching my potential. To put God first in my life! Thanks for the blog. Very encouraging and inspiring!! Look forward to reading more.

  19. Living comfortable in all aspects love, life and death. Your words are inspiring.

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